The Self-Mastery Map: 5 Steps to Your Authentic Destiny

One of my coaches used to say, “The best time to have a map is before you enter the woods.”

Download our Self-Mastery Map here. This will help you create a plan to elevate your impact in the next 90 days; inspired by sages, backed by science. 

Earlier in the week, one of my clients confessed that they felt “lost”…

It's easy to doubt ourselves, feel under confident or overthink our growth, success and fulfilment. This, in turn, creates energetic tension between where we are right now and where we want to be. It limits, blocks and diminishes our potential. 

In fact it is VERY simple, and beautifully highlighted by this quote recited by every great teacher I know…“The Universe does not give you what you want, it gives you WHO you are.”

This means we only have two jobs:

1) Define clearly WHO we wish to be

2) Embody this desired self in every moment with full presence by aligning your emotions, beliefs and habits

Most people think spiritual practices don't work because they are not conscious enough. Consequently they are either not clear enough with their intentions or not mindfully present enough in their daily habits. 

I know this to be true in my own life. Each layer I peel back, I start to see more clearly WHO I was being and everything makes sense. In fact, many people who have near death, unifying or enlightenment experiences speak about being able to view their whole story with complete awareness in those moments. 

And this makes sense because at our core…we are that awareness. 

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I love helping my clients create more impact in less time. The way we do this is very simple. A Stanford research paper shows that around 90% of our actions are subconscious. 

As one of my clients said, “You help me make the implicit, explicit.” Or like another one said, “You helped me uncover 20 years of blindspots.”

This is also why a recent client said, "I’ve learnt more in the last 3 months compared to the previous 2 years of personal development.”

Most people are running around hustling, trying to consciously solve problems they are not even aware of. Whilst we calmly and compassionately work on our subconscious through our authentic awareness questions and release emotions through our Chinese finger trap approach.

When you fuse those methods with our 3 brain paradigm, you move from a state of consciously trying to grow, to embodying your desired self. The best thing about this is that, even if you don't fulfil your initial desire, you remain peaceful.

And it's that state of peace that prepares you for something that far surpasses your initial desire. This was true for one of my entrepreneurial clients who wanted to create more regular income. 

They embodied a new state of being and, instead of purely creating the income, they received large equity shares in a dream soul-aligned business as well as improving their income. They moved to a dream destination and found deeper connection in their life. 

When they changed their state of being, the Universe delivered far beyond what their conscious mind could handle. 

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Here is a brief outline of the Self-Mastery Map:

1. Create a domino intention that will change your destiny

2. Define the character to embody

3. Note the new dominant emotional states

4. Create empowering beliefs based on these emotions

5. Design micro-habits that align to your character, emotions and beliefs

Write, recite, 'rave', repeat. 

The raving is essential of course!

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If you are a mission-focused entrepreneur who believes they are destined for more impact, time freedom and inner peace but you are unsure of where to start, book our awakening self-awareness call today. 

Or get in touch with your completed Self-Mastery Map so you can get started. 

With love,

Nilesh